GeezerVison

Fixes: #44720

replicate #44922 for cpSync

issues:

• copy sync API doesn't handle opts.filter properly.
  As a result, the path validation logic still gets triggered
  even though the file or folder is filtered out
• no central place to handle opts.filter
  e.g. need to call opts.filter(src, dest) in several places

changes:

• use checkPathsSync as a central place to validate the paths
  (with consideration of opts.filter) before copying
• cleanup: remove startCopy, change function name handleFilterAndCopy
  to checkParentDir to make it consistent with copy async
• update tests to test for both copy sync and async